yoctavias Asked
QuestionOkay, thanks for sharing that. Because there are things from everyones past that are OBVIOUSLY abusive, like death threats, name calling, physical beatings, neglect etc. And when you are removed from that situation no one really tells you "Hey, this and this and this and this are all abuse. You were being abused." SO, now that I know thats not OKAY or NORMAL. Geez, thanks. lol Answer

Oh god yeah, it’s so surreal isn’t it?

It took a long time for me to realize that my dad and a lot of my sexual and relationship partners I’ve had were abusive. Cuz people seriously don’t tell you that certain things are abuse.

It took this guy friend of mine who’s a social worker to really make everything click after I told him all the stuff that went on and he was like, “you’ve been abused, hun. That’s abuse.” I was just like :o waaaat?

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