melancholynecrokiss replied to your post: A close friend recently came back into the area and we were talking about the chick that made me homeless after months of free childcare.
This has been my experience too, sometimes I make excuses for other people but then a month or so afterward I talk to someone else about it, then I realize just how horrible the other person had been.
I also have this bad habit of returning to abusive situations or entering them without seeing any of the red flags again.