holeycynicism:

I’m okay with that, though I didn’t create this graphic.

You’re okay with being an asshole? When I use the word asshole, I’m not talking about someone who’s blunt or badass. I’m talking about someone who is of less worth socially because they hurt people. Maybe douchebag is a better term.

I agree, but also think being a toolbag is sometimes fun.

I don’t see how.

Maybe you shouldn’t assume I haven’t thought about this deeply. I’m pretty sure I said above that the problem isn’t talking about identity or self-expression. The preference isn’t against the thing, it’s against talking about it all the live long day. That’s what therapists are for. I pay mine good money to listen to me talk about crap no one else wants to hear, and I have no interest in taking up the profession.

Who even does that? Seriously? I have never met a single gay, trans or whatever person who talked all day about it. It’s not that interesting to us, since we live it. More often it’s cis and straight people who ask us incessant questions about it.

I do however know of many trans folks who have to constantly correct cis folks about shit they’re saying about them that is wrong. If that’s you think rambling about it is, you’re sorely mistaken.

But if it’s just an attention span and boredom thing, that’s cool. I get that. I hate hearing about people’s favorite bands all day too.