January 2011
Although a few of my friends in the group will not...
So thankfully it’s not on my constantly anxious ass to do it.
hufflepuffhalfling asked: To Aria: Thank you. you are a magnificent devil <3
and so are you Kinsey <3
and so are you Kinsey <3
poiseandpause replied to your post: Did I mention the public sex was with another Irish heritage ginger girl?
how public was this public sex! lolol
Haha, middle of the big living room with a balcony for the upstairs (rich friend’s house)? So unless you were in a bathroom or one of the separated upstairs rooms? Or the basement? You could see us getting busy from at least one angle. Even up...
We also kept on kissing in IHOP after the party...
Not like indecent make out kissing, just like quick pecks and cuddles and cheek nuzzles. Really sickeningly adorable stuff.
Did I mention the public sex was with another...
We are now facebook friends. XD
That kinda illustrates pretty well that I really...
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I kinda sorta also maybe might have had sex right...
And by maybe I mean I definitely did.
telescopics replied to your post: It was also a huge confidence booster to buzz around mostly naked like that. I had never done anything like that in such a huge group before.
Whenever I get things like “But you’re so attractive for a tranny!” I’m tempted to respond with “And you seem so accepting for someone who is a cissexist crap for brains!”
Lol, if only I wasn’t too anxious to say...
iuwaehfoaiuwhefoiaulfjqn asked: also not sure if you've de-computerized now, but I think you may find this useful:
http://amygdaladentata.tumblr.com/post/2808492171 (it is a masturbation technique for dysphoric trans women)
http://amygdaladentata.tumblr.com/post/2808492171 (it is a masturbation technique for dysphoric trans women)
It was also a huge confidence booster to buzz...
I got a lot of compliments too. Some of which were creepy, but most of which were blush inducing and self esteem boosting.
A small fraction irritated the fuck out of me by being all “YOU’RE SO PRETTY FOR A TRANNY”-esque tho.
Did I mention that at this weekend long party I...
There was a lot of mostly naked cuddling among most of the girls there, including me. It was like being at a rave, with less drugs and no glow sticks.
This is why, even with all the oppressive hateful shit I face in my life and all the bad things that have happened and prolly will continue to happen to me, I still have a fairly awesome time a lot.
And yes, WARM BOOB HUG is a thing.
Oppressed minorities oppressing minorities?
blackenedbutterfly:
I’m sure you’ve seen it many many times. LGBT people being racist? POC being homo/transphobic! LG people being bi+phobic (by bi+ I mean bi, poly, pan, omnisexual, etc). LGB people being transphobic. Post-/Pre-op Trans women de-gendering/invalidating non-op trans women! First wave feminism excluding queers. Second wave feminism excluding trans women, and being sex-negative.
I...
sistahmamaqueen replied to your post: Things I hate about myself
oh darling, you’re so iconic on my tumblr dashboard. i can’t stand the thought of you being quiet with folks. but i do the same, quite a lot. just so you know, you are not alone in your struggle. and it sounds like it’s time to take back yo power ;]
Definitely tryin’ every day. <3
iuwaehfoaiuwhefoiaulfjqn asked: !!! I am surprised we definitively agree on something.
I suppose that means I can let my guard down now. I think we've also talked enough for me not to have an extreme knee-jerk reaction when/if you do criticize me or someone I know.
I'm not sure if it's okay for me (yet?) to ask for a signal boost on that post, though. Idk. Do it if you feel it's...
I suppose that means I can let my guard down now. I think we've also talked enough for me not to have an extreme knee-jerk reaction when/if you do criticize me or someone I know.
I'm not sure if it's okay for me (yet?) to ask for a signal boost on that post, though. Idk. Do it if you feel it's...
angiospermsarenotmyforte asked: ARIA TO SAVE THE DAY
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Name:
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hidden-agender asked: What do you think about people using language like "Waaaah! Waaaah!" to signify that people's concerns are petty and derailing? I personally am very, very uncomfortable with that because crying is something that I've had extreme psychological issues with in the past, and is something that people receive a lot of undue shame and prescriptivism for. I wrote a piece on my feelings...
socialistunicorn asked: About the whole -phobia thing. Take the terms "transphobic" and "cisexist". I thought those terms were different. I thought transphobic meant discrimination against trans people, and cissexist meant assuming everyone is cis or something.
I totally get why "-phobia" for non-phobias are appropriation... I'm just not exactly sure if I can just switch...
I totally get why "-phobia" for non-phobias are appropriation... I'm just not exactly sure if I can just switch...
“Egypt doesn’t have control of its people the way we do here.”
– Joe Biden, today on MSNBC
This wasn’t the thing to say.
(via thecookieateu)
O so here you do have the way to do the huh on hah huh?
:| (scary)
That’s really fucking gross, Biden.
I just got chills up and down my spine.
(via allthebloodinmyveins)
Dear Biden et al,
Keep pushing us. Then...
Alex Holzbach: A Guide for Pro-Life Advocates →
alexholzballs:
genderbitch:
alexholzballs:
noinfoprov1ded:
alexholzbach:
Do not be upset if you’re called “anti-choice” by the other side. Instead, be proud in the fact that you’re against the choice to kill another human for unjustifiable reasons like financial strife or disability.
Stop calling pro-choicers “baby killers,” “murderers,” or anything along those…
Although I’m...
We don’t ask for much, just broadcast what is...
soupsoup:
To all the people of world The people in Egypt are under governmental siege. Mubarak regime is banning Facebook, Twitter, and all other popular internet sites Now, the internet are completely blocked in Egypt. Tomorrow the government will block the 3 mobile phone network will be completely blocked. And there is news that even the phone landlines will be cut tomorrow, to prevent any...
Alex Holzbach: A Guide for Pro-Life Advocates →
alexholzballs:
noinfoprov1ded:
alexholzbach:
Do not be upset if you’re called “anti-choice” by the other side. Instead, be proud in the fact that you’re against the choice to kill another human for unjustifiable reasons like financial strife or disability.
Stop calling pro-choicers “baby killers,” “murderers,” or anything along those…
Although I’m pro-choice, I think this is a great guide...
onceuponanotsolongago asked: (((hugs)))
I think you are awesome
I think you are awesome
There are many discussions going on (on tumblr)...
feministilicious:
projectqueer:
Can anyone rightfully justify this for me?
Now, I know that there are other terms that one can use to describe ignorance/hatred towards the homosexual community, like ‘heterosexism’ - for example. But how does one justify the word ‘homophobia’ as ableist? I do not get it.
The simple fact is: There are people in the world who fear the gay community. They are...
oneshamelesskid-deactivated2011 asked: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThvBJMzmSZI
hufflepuffhalfling asked: Welcome back Chica, tumblr wasn't the same with out you <3.
btw do you remember that cuddle application that you had passed out? Could I get a copy of that? I've scoured your archive to no avail. I kinda want to do something similar and you had some great questions iirc
btw do you remember that cuddle application that you had passed out? Could I get a copy of that? I've scoured your archive to no avail. I kinda want to do something similar and you had some great questions iirc
oldchristinathena asked: Your recent reply to the issue of male privilege and trans women finally made me understand that issue. I'd been thinking of male privilege in terms of how others behave towards people based on their perceptions, thus, the concept of "passing as male privilege" seemed unnecessarily pedantic to me. If it's a privilege given because you are perceived as male, isn't it the...
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Things I hate about myself
I keep my mouth shut irl when people use oppressive language cuz I’m so terrified of being isolated and alone and anxious about the conflict that will invariably happen. I just clam up or try to hide being upset.
No matter how many times people assure me that I’m beautiful or pretty or attractive or sexy or aesthetically pleasing (as is appropriate for the situation), honest people,...
I'm starting to get really wary of language... →
xangelwithoutwingsx:
tjslatts:
fiercelynative:
codalion:
rabblevolunteer:
greenstate:
tiaramerchgirl:
…mainly because it seems a little too easy.
Instead of engaging with points of view that are challenging to yours (or just even working from a very different perspective), instead of looking within yourself to see how you’re…
This is a tricky subject, since one person’s language...
nines19 asked: ohmgosh Kinsey you're back :D
iwaslisteningtotherain asked: yo are you ok
my alternate earth evil activist sends love (and the blood of many babies) your way kinsey <3
my alternate earth evil activist sends love (and the blood of many babies) your way kinsey <3
iuwaehfoaiuwhefoiaulfjqn asked: The more I look around and actively view tumblr, the more I see that there's a significantly higher representation of FAAB trans/nonbinary people than MAAB. I don't know why this is. But I understand now your concerns earlier.
iuwaehfoaiuwhefoiaulfjqn asked: I wrote this recently, I was wondering what your opinions were.
I'm trying to figure out why people at one point in the kyriarchy will appear to do a lot of shit to oppress someone else relatively lower in the pyramid.
http://blackenedbutterfly.tumblr.com/post/2945245676/oppressed-minorities-oppressing-minorities
I'm not writing it as a definitive statement, just in...
I'm trying to figure out why people at one point in the kyriarchy will appear to do a lot of shit to oppress someone else relatively lower in the pyramid.
http://blackenedbutterfly.tumblr.com/post/2945245676/oppressed-minorities-oppressing-minorities
I'm not writing it as a definitive statement, just in...
iuwaehfoaiuwhefoiaulfjqn asked: I haven't seen anything from you in the past day or two. Is everything okay?
gottagetbacktohogwarrrtss-deact asked: you ok? I haven't heard from you since you went out. I have my worried face on. damn me for losing your phone number.
iuwaehfoaiuwhefoiaulfjqn asked: Is Aimee doing better?
gottagetbacktohogwarrrtss-deact asked: you deserve it. have loads of fun and be safe with that fun.
xkcdwomanissues asked: She said she had male privilege when she was passing as male. You know, before she came out. And you know what? That is fucking true of all trans women, unless they started living as female when they were like five or something. The woman you launched your dogpile against, however, did not, and neither did you.
This is terrorism, right? Guy attempts to bomb...
thenewfilo:
the-pensieves-contents:
stfuislamophobes:
shortformblog:
who Roger Stockham, a 63-year-old California resident, was arrested last week in Michigan on felony charges over a “bias-motivated attack.”
what Stockman reportedly was arrested outside of a mosque with a very large number of consumer fireworks. They could’ve hurt a lot of people.
where Dearborn, Michigan, near one...
Positives:
I drank responsibly (go me!) and not just taking into account my depression, but also avoiding a level of inebriation that risked clumsy accidents that would affect my wound. I think this is a really good sign, cuz the me of 6 months ago would’ve just made the mistake of drinking during a spike and then gotten suicidal.
I had sex a few times (although for some reason we forgot we were in a...
Also, it really sucks that I still don't know if I...
With jets. :(
You know what fucks up a normally fun weekend long...
Cue spending several half hour spans hiding in the bathroom over the weekend until the fucker passes out so I can feel safe again and anxiety attacks.
I mean really, if your first instinct, when...
…you’re an asshole and your priorities need to be sorted, liek nao.
That awkward moment when someone you just came out...
williamaweasley:
genderbitch:
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seriously? seriously?!?!
is ‘i think trans women are hot’ an objectifying statement?
how can someone say that they’re attracted to trans people and not…fetishize them?
i mean it’s not that hard to use ‘trans women’ instead of ‘chicks with dicks’. just wondering, though.
It’s all in how you say it and your position of privilege. And the fact...
gottagetbacktohogwarrrtss-deact asked: high school was ugh. but not as bad as junior high for me. sigh. this day is kind of a downer. lucky my friend gave me 'it's kind of a funny story' so i get to watch that. <3
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That awkward moment when someone you just came out...
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gottagetbacktohogwarrrtss-deact asked: there are a few. it reminds me of being in high school. but a lot of the ppl on there ARE in high school. i was like 'oh! most of the time i forget' when really i was thinking no. i will use caps if i want to, and i will not use caps if i want to. getoverit. i will, use...imperfect grammar if i want to. *facepalm.*
gottagetbacktohogwarrrtss-deact asked: you don't have to publish this. but you're not on chat so i'll askbox this to you. i never remember to use caps on informal internet settings and misspell stuff as well as switch letters around. there's a person on the harry potter rp i'm doing that keeps policing me about caps. 'can you use caps, please?' so...prissy and ugh. no. i will use caps if i feel like...
Power corrupts so many people.
Especially power built on the backs and blood of others. Power that requires some level of corruption to be able to use it without pause anyways.